What is a Child’s Temperament?
Understanding the natural inclination of the soul
Understanding your child’s temperament is the first step in guiding them toward emotional growth and formation. But what exactly is temperament? It’s not just personality or a phase, it’s the natural way a child responds to the world.
As St. Thomas Aquinas said, it’s a “natural inclination of the soul.”
This natural inclination shapes how a child reacts to their environment, their emotions, and how they interact with others.
Some children jump into new experiences with excitement, while others stand back and observe. Some need constant movement, while others prefer routine and predictability. Recognizing these traits is the first step in helping your child grow into who they are meant to be, without forcing them into a mold.
Temperament is the foundation. With virtue, it can be elevated, forming a balanced and steady character. It’s not about changing who they are, but about guiding them toward their best selves through consistent, loving care.
Educating a child means understanding their temperament and helping them cultivate virtue. It’s not about erasing who they are, but about helping them grow into the best version of themselves, whole, steady, and joyful.
Want to learn more about how temperament influences parenting and how to guide your child with love? Stay tuned for more insights in my upcoming posts!
